On the 4th of July we often hear the question: Is the American Dream real? Here is one American girl’s story—you be the judge.
In 1970, I lived in the “projects” with my daughters, ages 7 & 8. Their father had never been in our lives and I had tried to support us, but despite my best efforts, even when I was employed as a typist for the state, we were nearly homeless and often hungry. Depressed, ashamed, and defeated, I gave up and went on welfare. A social worker who believed in me referred me to the Family Services Agency for free counseling. It was there that I asked myself: What if I went to six years of college and became a psychotherapist? What an impossible dream! But with government programs such as Aide to Families with Dependent Children, the college Work Study program, low-income housing and low-income childcare, in 1977 I graduated with a master’s degree. From Welfare to a 30-year career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker? Only in America!
Beautifully told—the hardships were real but you were amazing to overcome them. A message for everyone today. Thanks for sharing.
Way to go! You did it. And thank God for government programs that help propel people forward.
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From women can’t to yes, they can.
Congratulations!
Yes, only in America but also you, a strong woman and mother, gave your daughters the best example of a mother-
Determination and hard work!
That’s how we in America can change our story🕉️
Awesome Sheila!!
Bravo, Sheila! I wish more people could hear your story so they would be less eager to find fault with the public assistance program.
So proud of you Sheila! You have “SPUNK!”
You had motivation, determination, a mission and drive. The USA has programs to help women achieve their goals.