Recently, while cleaning out a cupboard, I found a world map. I unfolded it and realized: although I listen to and watch upsetting news every day, I didn’t know where Russia is in relation to the United States! I didn’t know how tiny Ukraine is, especially compared to Russia. Then, there’s Israel—so small, yet so loud on the world stage. As essayist Brian Lewis wrote: Our nervous system was never designed to carry the grief of an entire planet. Yet, here we are. How true! Lewis continues by saying: The soul speaks … when one human being feels the reality of another. And so, I vow: hatred will not make me hate. Violence will not make me violent. And scenes of hopelessness will not make me lose hope for humanity. I will maintain my capacity to feel and to care. Now, each day, I unfold my crumpled map and send out a heartfelt prayer to wherever in the world today’s travesty happened.
How do you cope as you carry “the grief of an entire planet?”
As always, a thoughtful piece, that makes each reader examine their own personal experiences and background. For me, understanding geography helps ground my soul and gives me a sense of wonder and ‘what’s next.’ Kudos to you on your writing journey!
I carry hope one day at a time for us all. It’s easier that way. A day at a time!
The grief is debilitating. I try not to dwell. It’s hard to watch and infiltrates my dreams. A balancing act of gratitude and grace.
I used to study maps while the teacher was talking and therefore did not pay attention to the teacher, but now I can name every country in the world. I agree with you….I cannot hate because so many are hateful. We live in a fallen world and it breaks my heart how we can disavow people and not even see them as people. Give someone a smile today. Tell them if you like their shirt or something small to make them feel good.
I never cared much for Geography in school. Wish I had paid more attention. This has always been my least favorite category while watching Jeopardy. Time to do some more work on this subject. What you’ve presented, Sheila, has been some of my own thoughts and feelings. Thanks for providing wisdom on what to do with them.
I was just the opposite. In fifth grade we did projects for each section of the United States. I liked learning about Michigan with family connections.
I did a report on Wyoming in 5th grade. I think I still have it. It was fun learning all about this state.
As a reader of historical novels, a sense of place has always seemed important to me. “Look it up” my parents would say, and I would. Even today, I keep a USA road atlas next to my favorite reading chair.
This is a tough topic. I always feel a bit sad and helpless when I watch the news. Sometimes I choose to not watch it at all. I think we need to start by caring for ourselves and becoming what we hope for others. Remember, « Kindness begins with me. »