“When we were in our late 20’s, my friend Andrea and I were nurses in my hometown of Philadelphia. She accidentally became pregnant and the baby’s father convinced her to drive cross-country to San Francisco, where his wealthy mother would take her in and help her give the baby up for adoption. Since I had toured Europe in the past, Andrea thought I might have the nerve to leave my familiar roots in Philly and accompany her to the scary streets of “The City.” All I could say was: Boy, will I! California, here I come!
Andrea’s story is a familiar one. She had the baby, couldn’t bear to give her up, and returned with a pink bundle to her family’s open arms in Philly. As for me, I fell in love–with a whole new, primitive, unsavory, free-thinking world. While I was still ‘straight and sober Ruth,’ I became much more ‘cool.’ Helping Andrea through her crisis became a lifelong turning point for me, and I am still living happily ever after in my forever home, California!”
A willing and adventurous friend created a life tie of changes.
I still MISS this wonderful Friend.
Wow, Ruth, what an amazing friend you were to agree to support Andrea at this point in her life!
I have known other women in Andrea’s situation who have struggled secretly and all alone with no support system.
Your courage and empathy changed 3 women’s lives forever!
Ruth, we’re so fortunate to have you near us wherever we are physically, emotionally.
Your compassion, curiosity, street smarts, finely tuned sense of the ridiculousness, intelligence, and strength help ease our way. AND you make great jam. You’re one
classy broad as we east coasters would would say. ❤️.
Thank you so much Donna. Your comments warm my heart. I have had a rich life with many stories to tell.
I suspect we share a good bit in common and would love to hear your stories if you like/
Ruthie
The roadmap of our lives can be truly amazing and meaningful.
Something to ponder.